Open Adoption is a Process that Allows for the Ongoing Communication and Contact Between Birth Parents, Adoptive Parents, and the Adopted Child.

Unlike traditional closed adoptions where all identifying information is sealed, open adoption allows for varying degrees of openness and transparency, depending on the preferences and agreements made by all parties involved.

Below is how the process generally works:

Decision to Pursue Open Adoption

Birth parents considering adoption have the option to choose open adoption, where they can remain in contact with the adoptive family and the child. Adoptive parents also have the choice to pursue an open adoption arrangement.

Selection of Adoptive Family

Birth parents often have the opportunity to choose the adoptive family for their child. They may review profiles of prospective adoptive families provided by adoption agencies or facilitators and select a family that aligns with their preferences and values.

Establishment of Openness Agreement

Once a match is made, all parties, including the birth parents and adoptive parents, typically engage in discussions facilitated by adoption professionals to establish an openness agreement. This agreement outlines the level and frequency of contact between birth parents, adoptive parents, and the child. Openness agreements can range from occasional letters and photos to regular visits and ongoing communication.

Legal Procedures

Legal procedures for open adoption vary depending on the jurisdiction. However, in most cases, the adoption is legally finalized through court proceedings, and the openness agreement may be incorporated into the adoption decree or a separate contract.

Communication and Contact

After the adoption is finalized, communication and contact between birth parents, adoptive parents, and the child typically begin according to the terms of the openness agreement. This may include letters, emails, phone calls, video chats, social media interactions, visits, or other forms of contact agreed upon by all parties.

Maintenance of Relationship

Throughout the child's life, birth parents and adoptive parents navigate their relationship based on mutual respect, trust, and the best interests of the child. Open adoption allows for flexibility and adjustment over time, as the needs and preferences of all parties may evolve.

It's important to note that open adoption arrangements can vary widely and are highly individualized based on the preferences, comfort levels, and circumstances of the birth parents, adoptive parents, and the child. Adoption professionals play a crucial role in facilitating communication, providing support, and helping all parties navigate the complexities of open adoption.